A Scandalous Love Story: The Common-Law Marriage of John Weskett and Barbara Midgett in 1800s North Carolina

In the early 1800s on Roanoke Island, North Carolina, a romance blossomed that would challenge the social and legal norms of the time. This is the story of my 4th great-grandparents, John Weskett Jr. and Barbara “Barby” Midgett, whose relationship began as a scandal but endured to become a legitimate marriage spanning decades.

The Early Years

Barbara Midgett was born in 1787 and came from a prominent Roanoke Island family. In 1802, at just 15 years old, she married Ambrose N. Dough, an 18-year-old mariner1. The marriage seemed promising at first, with Barbara bringing 76 acres of inherited land to the union2. However, their relationship would soon take an unexpected turn.

A Marriage Falls Apart

While Ambrose was away at sea, Barbara began a relationship with John Weskett Jr., who was born between 1774 and 1780. By 1807, Barbara and John were living together openly, having already welcomed two children. When Ambrose returned from his voyage to discover this new arrangement, he found himself in an impossible situation.

The Failed Divorce Petition

In 1809, Ambrose petitioned the North Carolina legislature for divorce. In his emotional appeal, he described how he had improved Barbara’s land during their marriage but had “declined any further use of the same” after discovering her relationship with Weskett. Despite support from several prominent citizens, including members of the legislature, his petition was denied.

Property and Financial Matters

In an interesting twist, despite his complaints to the legislature, Ambrose had already sold Barbara’s 76 acres to John Weskett in 1804 for 400 silver dollars. This transaction would later become part of a complex web of property arrangements between the three parties.

A Family Grows

Unable to marry legally until after Ambrose’s death, John and Barbara continued their life together, eventually having seven children: Thomas, Samuel, Patrick, Sally, Polly, Harriett, and John (my 3rd great-grandfather). Their relationship, though technically illegal, was accepted enough in the community that they were able to conduct business and own property.

Legal Marriage at Last

On December 22, 1824, John and Barbara were finally able to formalize their relationship. They signed a detailed marriage contract that carefully protected Barbara’s property rights and provided for their children’s inheritance. This contract offers a fascinating glimpse into both the legal complexities of the time and the couple’s commitment to securing their family’s future.

Later Years

By 1830, Barbara had established herself as head of her own household, according to census records. The family owned three slaves initially, though by 1840 this number had decreased to one. The census also notes “1 insane white” in the household, possibly referring to John’s brother James.

Wescott Home.jpg

Home of three generations of Wescott's built around 1810. 
Moved from Manteo Airport in 1942 by D. Victor Meekins

Historical Significance

This family story has attracted scholarly attention, being featured in several academic works examining legal culture and gender relations in the post-Revolutionary South. It provides valuable insights into marriage, property rights, and social norms in early American society.

Endnotes

Barbara Midgett, The People and Their Peace: Currituck County, North Carolina, 1728โ€“2000 (Currituck, North Carolina: Currituck County Historical Society, 2005), 170; digital images, Google Books (https://www.google.com/books/edition/The_People_and_Their_Peace/0cU3CwAAQBAJ: accessed 22 March 2026), entry referencing Barbara Midgett.

“Dare, North Carolina, United States records,” images, FamilySearch ({{FamilySearch Image | 3QSQ-G982-YCQW}} : Mar 23,
2026), image 414 of 668; Dare County (North Carolina). Register of Deeds.
Image Group Number: 007538808

Barbara Midgett, The People and Their Peace: Currituck County, North Carolina, 1728โ€“2000 (Currituck, North Carolina: Currituck County Historical Society, 2005), 170; digital images, Google Books (https://www.google.com/books/edition/The_People_and_Their_Peace/0cU3CwAAQBAJ: accessed 22 March 2026), discussion of Ambroseโ€™s legislative complaint and prior sale of Barbara Midgettโ€™s 76 acres to John Weskett in 1804 for 400 silver dollars.

Barbara Midgett, The People and Their Peace: Currituck County, North Carolina, 1728โ€“2000 (2005), 170โ€“171; digital images, Google Books (https://www.google.com/books/edition/The_People_and_Their_Peace/0cU3CwAAQBAJ
: accessed 22 March 2026).

Barbara Midgett, The People and Their Peace: Currituck County, North Carolina, 1728โ€“2000 (Currituck, North Carolina: Currituck County Historical Society, 2005), 170โ€“171; digital images, Google Books (https://www.google.com/books/edition/The_People_and_Their_Peace/0cU3CwAAQBAJ: accessed 22 March 2026), describing the relationship of John Wescott and Barbara Midgett and naming their children Thomas, Samuel, Patrick, Sally, Polly, Harriett, and John.

“Currituck, North Carolina, United States records,” images, FamilySearch ({{FamilySearch Image | 3QS7-898B-WTH}} : Mar 23, 2026),
image 343 of 582; North Carolina. County Court of Pleas and Quarter Sessions (Currituck County). Image Group Number: 007513637

1830 U.S. census, Currituck County, North Carolina, population schedule, John Wescott household; digital images, Ancestry ({{Ancestry Record|8058|185142}}: accessed 22 March 2026); citing National Archives microfilm publication M19.

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Maximize Your Genealogy Success with a Research Log

A well-crafted research log is one of the most effective tools for improving your genealogy results. By maintaining an organized and detailed record of your searches, you can save time, avoid repeat efforts, and uncover connections that might otherwise go unnoticed. Hereโ€™s how to create and optimize your research log for maximum success.


Why Use a Research Log?

Key Benefits:

  • Avoid Repetition: Prevent wasted effort by tracking what youโ€™ve already searched.
  • Discover Patterns: Review past work to identify clues and connections.
  • Streamline Collaboration: Allow others (or your future self) to easily pick up where you left off.

If youโ€™re not yet using a research log, nowโ€™s the perfect time to start. If you already are, take a moment to ensure itโ€™s as effective as possible.


Choosing Your Research Log Medium

Paper or Digital?

  • Paper Logs:
    • Best for those who prefer handwriting or enjoy a tactile approach.
    • Worked well for generations of genealogists.
  • Digital Logs:
    • Use tools like Excel, Google Sheets, Evernote, or OneNote.
    • Benefits include:
      • Instant search functionality.
      • Easy sorting and filtering by name, date, or keyword.
      • Simple editing and reorganization.

Tip: Choose a medium youโ€™ll consistently use. Digital logs often provide greater flexibility and scalability, especially for long-term projects.


Essential Elements of a Research Log

Your research log should answer this key question: Can someone else (or your future self) retrace my steps based on this log? Include these core components:

1. Ancestor Information

  • Full name of the individual being researched.
  • Approximate birth, death, and other relevant dates.
  • Pro Tip: For digital logs, use separate columns for first and last names to easily sort and filter entries.

2. Search Date

  • Always record the date of each search.
  • Why? New records and database updates occur regularly. Knowing when you last searched helps you decide if itโ€™s time to revisit a source.

3. Research Question

  • Focus each search on a specific, actionable question (e.g., โ€œWhat was John Doeโ€™s birth year?โ€).
  • Avoid unfocused searches that lead to wasted time and potential errors.

4. Source Information

  • Record the organization, library, archive, or website where you conducted the search.
  • For online searches, note the website name and any relevant URLs.

5. Full Citation

  • Include a complete citation for each source consulted.
  • Tip: Creating citations immediately saves time later and ensures accuracy.

6. Search Details

  • Record specifics such as:
    • Names (with variants) and filters used.
    • Scope of the search (e.g., โ€œlimited to 1850-1900 U.S. Census recordsโ€).
  • Depth vs. Usability: While detailed logs are invaluable, find a balance that doesnโ€™t discourage you from logging altogether.

7. Results (Positive or Negative)

  • Document findings, even if the search yields no results.
  • Why log negative results?
    • Avoid repeating unproductive searches.
    • Identify patterns to refine research strategies.

8. Document Copies

  • Save copies of useful records and assign unique IDs to each.
  • Cross-reference these IDs in your research log for easy retrieval.

9. Notes and Next Steps

  • Add observations, hypotheses, or ideas for future research.
  • Example: โ€œConsider searching land records for John Doe in County X, 1880-1890.โ€

Tips for Using Your Research Log Effectively

Fill Out the Log Before You Search

  • Include basic details (ancestor, date, research question, etc.) before starting.
  • This habit ensures completeness and reduces the temptation to skip logging.

Customize to Fit Your Needs

  • Add fields that suit your specific research goals.
  • Keep it simple if complexity makes you less likely to maintain the log.

Use Templates

  • Sample templates are available online or via genealogy communities.
  • Examples include templates by genealogy experts like Thomas MacEntee or Family Locket.

Optimizing Digital Research Logs

If you choose a digital medium, here are additional tips to make the most of it:

1. Utilize Spreadsheet Features

  • Sorting and Filtering: Organize by name, location, or date.
  • Color-Coding: Highlight completed searches or priority tasks.

2. Add Hyperlinks

  • Link directly to online records or reference documents.

3. Backup Your Files

  • Regularly save your log to multiple locations (e.g., cloud storage and external drives).

Example Workflow for a Search

  1. Preparation:
    • Record ancestor name, approximate dates, research question, and planned source.
  2. Conduct the Search:
    • Review sources thoroughly.
  3. Log Results:
    • Note findings, including negative results.
    • Save and cross-reference documents.
  4. Reflect and Plan:
    • Add notes and decide on next steps.

Conclusion

A well-maintained research log is an essential tool for genealogists. By tracking your efforts, you can save time, uncover hidden patterns, and collaborate more effectively. Whether you prefer paper or digital formats, the key is consistency and detail. Happy researching!

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Overcoming Common Genealogy Challenges: A Beginnerโ€™s Guide

Starting your genealogy journey can be exciting, but it also comes with its share of challenges. Whether you’re struggling to find records, decipher handwriting, or break through brick walls, donโ€™t get discouraged! Here are some common obstacles beginners face and how to overcome them.

Missing or Incomplete Records

One of the biggest frustrations in genealogy is missing or destroyed records. However, alternative sources can help:

  • Church Records: If civil records are unavailable, check baptism, marriage, and burial records from local churches.
  • Newspapers: Obituaries, marriage announcements, and local news articles often provide crucial details.
  • Census Records: These can confirm locations, family members, and occupations.
  • Land and Probate Records: Deeds and wills can establish family connections.
  • Military Records: Draft registrations and service records can offer birth dates and locations.

Deciphering Handwriting and Old Documents

Reading old cursive or poorly preserved documents can be tough. Try these tips:

  • Compare letters to familiar words in the document.
  • Use online handwriting guides for different time periods.
  • Seek transcriptions of similar records to recognize common phrases.

Conflicting or Incorrect Information

Family stories and historical documents donโ€™t always match up. Verify facts by:

  • Cross-referencing multiple sources.
  • Checking original documents instead of relying on online summaries or indexes.
  • Looking for patternsโ€”multiple census records, directories, or newspaper mentions can clarify inconsistencies.

Feeling Overwhelmed?

If you’re unsure how to proceed, I can help! For just $25 per hour, I offer personalized guidance to streamline your research, provide expert tips, and help you build a family tree that future generations will cherish.

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Genealogy is a journey full of surprises and discoveries. Stay persistent, explore alternative sources, and reach out for help when neededโ€”your familyโ€™s history is waiting to be uncovered!

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AI Tools Help Transcribe Captain Wescott’s Article

For many years, I had a newspaper article about my second great-grandfather, but it was torn into two sections, making it hard to read. Plus, the person who cut it out removed the date, newspaper title, and publisher, so I couldn’t find it. Recently, I discovered the article online, and thanks to some amazing AI tools, I was able to transcribe it! I’m excited to finally share it with everyone so we can all enjoy the story together!

Captain Wescott Preparing For Season On “Dry Body of Water”

The article about Captain Wescott is from The Waynesville Mountaineer, published on June 1, 1939.

“Yes, I was born on Roanoke Island, where Virginia Dare first saw the light, but she had left before I got there,” said Captain John T. Wescott, with a twinkle in his eyes.

The captain, a landmark at the Lake Junaluska Assembly Grounds, has been in charge of the rowboats and has run the launch “Cherokee,” in which he has a third interest, for the past twenty-one years. Prior to his coming to the Lake, the captain had retired from the United States Coast Guard service, after 43 years of active duty.

“But I date back pretty well, even if I didn’t know Virginia,” continued Captain Wescott. “I was born in 1853, and I well recall the days when General Burnside captured Roanoke Island during the Civil War. We had food stored away to do us a year, but the soldiers took everything, and after they left, it looked like starvation. We had forty hogs and forty chickens, and they took them all. One of the Yankee officers, however, took an old hen away from one of the privates and came back and brought it to my mother. She kept it hidden in a barrel in the attic until she was sure the soldiers had left for good.”

“Another thing I remember were the decoy geese my father had and prized so much. They took them all and his guns too. We had been taking care of two Confederate soldiers who were wounded and suffering, and had asked us to give them shelter. So, when the Yankees found out about them, they took my father a prisoner. But what’s the use of recalling such things at this time? Somebody might have hard feelings about it, and I don’t mean it that way. I am just remembering when I was a child.”

Captain Wescott, erect, stocky, and ruddy-faced, denies in appearance and bearing the years he claims make up his age. He shows the clear skin of a person who has lived much in the open. His quarters in the Cherokee Inn, where he lives six months out of the year, are as immaculate as the cabin of a well-scrubbed ship. He showed us about. His closet, cedar-lined and large enough to hold a good-sized trunk, boxes, plenty of shelves, and rows of hooks for hanging garments, is as neat as a pin. Everything is in its place. But one could have guessed without being told where his great interest lay, for there were boat models.

“Yes, for twenty-one years I have run the ‘Cherokee’ on a regular schedule around the lake from 7 to 8 o’clock every evening except Sunday, during the entire season here. I always come early in April to get the rowboats and the launch ready for the summer,” he said.

“But after my years on the sea, I’ll have to admit that Lake Junaluska is the tamest body of water I have ever run a boat on. It’s like taking a broken dose of something for me to run the launch on Lake Junaluska, but then at 86, that’s alright, because I can’t do the work I once did,” said the captain.

“But I don’t like the looks of the lake a bit these days,” he continued. “Right now, it looks like I might have to hoist the old ‘Cherokee’ on wheels, because she has a poor chance of floating anytime soon. We are having a lot of dam trouble down here, but I think the good Methodists are having fun talking about their dam troubles,” he said when speaking of the present condition of the lake.

Lake Junaluska has been drained for work on the lake bed, and it may not be filled until July, which seems to be mighty hard on the captain, who is at work on his boats, getting them ready to float, with a “dry body of water facing the boathouse,” as he says.

The captain’s 43 years of service were seen in the Revenue Cutter, Life Saving, and Inland Service of the Government, and he was located some fifty-five miles from Cape Henry in the coast guard service for 30 years, retiring at the age limit of 65.

After his retirement, two of his daughters, school girls at the time, came to Lake Junaluska, and were so enthusiastic that they persuaded their mother and father to come to this section the next year. They did so, and both liked it. They soon bought the Cherokee Inn, which they owned and operated for many years.

Two years prior to the death of Mrs. Wescott, they rented the Inn to Mr. and Mrs. Claude Medford, who bought the place about three years ago and have since operated it. The captain has continued to make his home at the Inn, during the time he spends in this section.

The rest of the year, the captain spends with his six children, who are scattered from Greenville, Ky., to Richmond, Va. The greater part of the six months out of the mountains is spent with his son, who lives in Norfolk. When his longing for the old life on the coast of North Carolina gets too much for him, he visits his brother down in Manteo.

“I’ll be coming to Lake Junaluska to run the ‘Cherokee’ as long as I live,” said the captain. “I feel more at home here than most any place now.”

Footnote: We, my genealogical cousins and I, have been unable to find any record of John Senior being a POW, but that does not mean he was not one. It could have been an overnight stay in jail, or he had to pay a fine, or he was part of the prisoner exchange.

Read my blog to discover the incredible story of Captain Wescott and uncover the fascinating details about this remarkable man!

Explore Your Familyโ€™s Past: Why You Should Attend RootsTech 2025

Discover the Ultimate Family History Conference

If you’re passionate about genealogy or just starting your family history journey, RootsTech 2025 is an event you wonโ€™t want to miss. While many amateur researchers may not be familiar with RootsTech, this conference offers incredible benefits for anyone interested in uncovering their roots.

Although the event takes place in Salt Lake City, Utah, RootsTech has expanded its reach by offering a robust online experience. When the COVID-19 pandemic forced a shift to virtual events, organizers realized the power of digital accessibility. Now, even if you canโ€™t travel to Utah, you can still participate in webinars, workshops, and exclusive online content from anywhere in the world.

The In-Person RootsTech Experience

Attending RootsTech in person is an unparalleled experience. As the largest genealogy conference, it brings together DNA experts, historians, and family history enthusiasts for an inspiring and educational gathering.

Held in Salt Lake City, often referred to as the โ€œGenealogy Capital of the World,โ€ the event takes place near the world-renowned FamilySearch Library. Attendees can explore cutting-edge genealogy technology, connect with like-minded individuals, and gain insights from industry leaders. The exhibit hall buzzes with interactive displays, product demonstrations, and hands-on research opportunities.

Explore the RootsTech On-Demand Library

RootsTech provides access to an extensive library of on-demand sessions covering over 185 topics in more than 26 languages. Whether you are a beginner or an expert, you can filter sessions by day, skill level, or speaker to personalize your learning experience. Selecting โ€œ+ Scheduleโ€ on your favorite sessions allows you to build a customized agenda and view it under โ€œMy Schedule.โ€

For virtual participants, RootsTech offers a variety of engaging online activities, including:

  • Relatives at RootsTech โ€“ This feature connects you with other attendees who share common ancestors based on your FamilySearch Family Tree. The more information you add to your tree, the more cousin connections youโ€™ll discover!
  • Photo Collage Creator โ€“ Make a visual family history keepsake.
  • Famous Relatives โ€“ Find out if youโ€™re related to historical figures.
  • Personality Match โ€“ See which famous personalities share your traits.
  • Shared Surnames & Top Contributors โ€“ Connect with others researching the same family names.
  • 200+ New Online Sessions โ€“ Learn from experts on RootsTech.org.

How to Register for RootsTech 2025

In-Person Conference:

Salt Lake City
$129 US 3-Day Pass
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250+ exclusive sessions only available in SLC
120+ exhibitors/sponsors in the Expo Hall
Be the first to learn of industry innovations

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Enjoy free access to all virtual sessions and events on RootsTech.org.

200+ new online sessions in over 26 languages
Join keynote sessions live from the comfort of your own home
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RootsTech 2025 will take place from March 6โ€“8, 2025, both in Salt Lake City, Utah, and online. Whether you attend in person or virtually, this premier family discovery event will inspire and empower you to explore your heritage like never before.

Donโ€™t Miss This Opportunity to Connect with Your Past

RootsTech 2025 offers something for everyone, from beginner genealogists to seasoned researchers. Whether you want to uncover family connections, learn about the latest genealogy tools, or explore historical records, this event provides the resources and inspiration you need. Mark your calendar and start your journey of discovery today!

James Lide Coker: From Civil War to Corporate Success

Born in 1837, James Lide Coker, my 5th cousin, 4x removed.
Photo found at https://www.findagrave.com/memorial/12291661/james-lide-coker

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The company he founded is called Sonoco today, a global provider of packaging products and services. (Not to be confused with Sunoco) He also founded Coker University (which was Welsh Neck High School, then the Coker College for Women, now Coker University).

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Wouldn’t he be proud to know that his 5th cousin, 2x removed, Jeanne Wescott (my grandfather’s sister), attended Coker College in 1943? ๐Ÿค— (Jeanne’s grandmother and James were 5th cousins.)

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Just a year after he married his wife, the Civil War began and James fought in the Ninth South Carolina Infantry. He rose to the rank of major before getting hurt at Lookout Mountain, Georgia, shattering his leg in 1863. In that battle, he was captured by Union troops. He was released after 10 months.

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From the fields of Hartsville, SC to the battlefields of Chickamauga, his journey transformed agriculture and education, leaving a legacy that shaped industries and communities alike.

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Watch the video to witness the extraordinary life of James who wore many hatsโ€”farmer, soldier, and industrialistโ€”who, despite the scars of war, cultivated a legacy of innovation and education that endures to this day.

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๐Ÿ†In 2002, he was inducted into South Carolina’s Hall of Fame. CHStoday

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“He was able to hire so many people in desperate straits after the war that he just uplifted the progress of everybody, black and white, urban or rural. He also was a leader in racial and social progress,”

Dr. Will Joslin (his great-grandson) said.

Read more at

https://archives.library.sc.edu/repositories/3/resources/40

https://www.scencyclopedia.org/sce/entries/coker-james-lide-sr/

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/James_Lide_Coker

Founded in 1899, Sonoco Products Company is a United States-based international provider of diversified consumer packaging, industrial products, protective packaging, and packaging supply chain services and the world’s largest producer of composite cans, tubes, and cores. Wikipedia
Stock price: SON (NYSE) $60.71 +0.07 (+0.12%)
Dec 30, 4:00โ€ฏPM EST – Disclaimer
Headquarters: Hartsville, SC
Subsidiaries: Sonoco ThermoSafe, MORE
CEO: R. Howard Coker (Feb 2020โ€“)
Number of employees: 21,000 (2017)
Revenue: 5.237 billion USD (Fiscal Year Ended December 31, 2020)
Founder: James Lide Coker
Founded: May 10, 1899

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Uncovering Mat Stephanz’s Roots: A Journey Through Family History

Who Were Matโ€™s Parents and Family?

Mat Stephanzโ€™s story begins in Kansas City, where he lived from birth until his marriage to Clara in 1920. His journey also included service in the Navy, but where did his family come from? How did they settle in Kansas City?

To uncover this, I started with his last known residence and the most recent record I could access: his Social Security Application. You might have guessed Iโ€™d say his death certificate, but because that record is over 50 years old, itโ€™s only available through a family memberโ€”possibly among my great aunt’s possessions.

The Social Security Application confirmed that Mathias Stephanz and Mary Svegel were Matโ€™s parents. This wasnโ€™t entirely new information; family trees from my Uncle’s and a paper trail from Clara or Mat had suggested it. However, in genealogy, documentation is key to verifying claims.

For privacy, I edited the document to exclude Matโ€™s Social Security number.

Mathias Stephanz SSN Application edit

Knowing his parentsโ€™ names wasnโ€™t enough to trace their origins. Census records and connections to Kansas Cityโ€™s Strawberry Hill provided further clues. The 1900 census listed both Mathias and Maryโ€™s birthplace as โ€œAustria,โ€ while the 1910 census specified โ€œAustria Germany.โ€ According to Marshallโ€™s research, they hailed from ฤŒrnomelj, Austria (modern-day Slovenia).

With this foundation, I found more census records: Mathias ล tefanc appears in the 1920 and 1930 records, while Maryโ€™s entries span 1920, 1930, and 1940. These documents revealed more about their lives: Mathiasโ€™s naturalization in 1900 and the fact that he didnโ€™t finish school. Each census offered a glimpse into their journey as immigrants building a life in a new land.

Mathias Stephanz Naturalization Record 1900.jpg

One interesting article was written by a genealogical cousin, Peter Hawlina.

Slovenia by Peter Hawlina

Slovenia has been an independent country since 1991. Before this, it was a part of Titoโ€™s Yugoslavia. Prior to the second world war it was part of the Kingdom of Yugoslavia and the Kingdom of Serbs, Croats, and Slovenes. Until the end of the first world war, it belonged to the Austrian Habsburg monarchy for centuries but also for a short time was under the direction of Napoleonic France. More than one thousand years ago the Slovenians lived in a Slavic empire led by King Samo. A more curious reader can read more about this in other publications. As an illustration, I will name just one example from modern history.
ย 
My sister was born in 1940 in the kingdom of Yugoslavia. I was born in 1941 under the Italian occupation in Italy. My brother was born in 1943 in Germany after the Italians capitulated, while my next sister was born in 1945 in the Federal Socialist Republic of Yugoslavia. We all were born in the same house in the suburbs of Ljubljana, so it is important for a genealogist to be aware of the fact that there were changing religious and civil jurisdictions at various times. These changes are of critical importance when conducting this research. I will not go into details but I will mention those characteristics that would be helpful to the inexperienced researcher.

stari-trg-ob-kolpiThe local parish church is dedicated to Saint Joseph and belongs to the Roman Catholic Diocese of Novo Mesto.ย  Records from there are Status Animarum Records.

Status Animarum translates as โ€œthe state of souls.โ€ They contain names and information about baptism, marriage, burial, and relationship to head of household for everyone living in a parish by house number. Spouses often show the town and house where they were born or moved. They were kept by the parish priests for internal purposes. Handwriting and format vary by priest. Below is the Status Animarum for Matijas’ household.

Book C ST10 & 06

Deskova vas
Deskova vas, Slovenia

Deskova vas 4 Jozef Svegel Household_Koce

Marriage Record

Now known as Mathias and Mary Stephanz, they lived their remaining lives in Kansas City, Kansas, raising two girls and two boys.ย  Mary was Naturalized in 1895, and Mathias in 1900.

Stephanz Family Abt 1905

By the 1920s, he was a “Cabinet Maker” at a Cabinet Shop.ย  He took his “Coach Maker” skills to work on furniture.ย  ย This skill took him to Abernathy Brothers Furniture Store. Mary Swegel and Matthias Paul Stephanz, Sr. In 1936, while working as a “furniture packer” with Abernathy, he received an injury that infected and caused Streptococcus in his left hand.ย ย It seems it went downhill from there with pneumonia and fluid in his lungs.ย  I wonder if it had to do with Kansas City experiencing one of the worst heatwaves in North America in the same year, causing it not to heal.

He died at only 68 years of age. For an interesting twist to this family, read Hidden In A Letter.

Death Certificate 1936Above is his death certificate.ย  It also lists where he was buried, Mt. Calvary Catholic Cemetery.

Another interesting tidbit.ย  Had I known about this family in 2012, I might now live in Slovenia!ย  In researching Mathias’ father, I received a Google response:

Matija ล tefanc, rojen 17.ย 2. 1845, nazadnje stanujoฤ Dolenji Radenci 10, poลกta Stari trg ob Kolpi, umrl neznano kdaj, je nedvomno ลพe pokojni, ni pa mogoฤe dobiti dokazila o njegovi smrti. Poziva se vse, ki kaj vedo o Matiji ล tefancu, zlasti o tem, kdaj in kje je umrl, da to sporoฤijo Okrajnemu sodiลกฤu v ฤŒrnomlju, najkasneje v treh mesecih po objavi tega oklica, ker bo sodiลกฤe sicer po preteku tega roka, imenovanega razglasilo za mrtvega.
Okrajno sodiลกฤe v ฤŒrnomlju dne 21. 5. 2012

Google translation is:

Matija ล tefanc, born 17. 2. 1845, last residing Dolenji Radenci 10 mail Stari trg at Kolpa, died when the unknown is no doubt already late, but it is impossible to obtain proof of his death. It urges all to what they know about Matija ล tefanc, in particular about when and where he died, to report this to the Local Court in ฤŒrnomelj within three months after the publication of the notice because the court after the expiry of this period, known as declared dead.
The District Court in ฤŒrnomlju of 21. 5. 2012

This land was the property of our ancestor, Matija Stefanc. As the Republic of Slovenia built a road through this land and they could not reach the person or next of kin, they proceeded with an act through the court, which proclaimed him dead.

Through careful documentation and family research, weโ€™ve pieced together Mat Stephanzโ€™s story, connecting the threads of his roots to his life in Kansas City. The journey to uncover your familyโ€™s past is as much about the process as it is about the stories you discover along the way.

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Love Against All Odds: The Story of Elias Boudinot and Harriet Gold at the Logan Homestead

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I received a copy of a letter from the Gunn Memorial Library and Museum, written in 2008 by Marlene Flanders, a former aide to Mrs. Verna Logan, who passed away in 1987. In the letter, she mentioned a story she had heard about the Rising Sun Inn, also known as The Logan Homestead, which allegedly harbored an “interracial couple”: a Cherokee Indian man and a white woman. I was intrigued by this account, as I had not come across it before. This blog post tells the story.


Letter written in 2008 by Marlene Flanders, former aid to Mrs. Verna Logan., who died in 1987.

The Beginning: Two Lives, Worlds Apart

In 1803, a boy named Killekeenah Oowaite was born into the Cherokee tribe in New Echota, Cherokee Nation (now Georgia, USA). His upbringing was steeped in the traditions of his family, including his father Dutse Oowaite, and his mother, the daughter of High Cherokee Chief Attaculcullah. Their family name was eventually shortened to Watie. Two years later, in Cornwall, Connecticut, Harriet Ruggles Gold was born into the prominent Gold family, whose legacy was rooted in strong Christian values and community leadership.


Education and Encounter

At 18, Killekeenah met Elias Boudinot, a Revolutionary War figure, a friend and counselor to George Washington, and former President of the Continental Congress, who saw potential in the young Cherokee man. Boudinot sponsored Killekeenahโ€™s education, sending him to the Foreign Mission School in Cornwall, where he adopted the name Elias Boudinot. It was here that he met Harriet Gold, whose family often hosted students from the school.

Their friendship deepened into love, but the cultural and racial norms of the time set them on a path fraught with opposition and challenges.


The Challenges of Love

In 1822, Elias returned to the Cherokee Nation due to illness but remained in contact with Harriet and her brother Franklin through letters. By 1824, their correspondence revealed a deepening relationship. When Harriet shared her intentions with her parents, they vehemently opposed the union. The Gold family, known for its standing in Connecticut, was divided. Harrietโ€™s brothers-in-law, both ministers, argued it was her Christian duty to prioritize the mission schoolโ€™s reputation over her personal happiness.

Harriet, however, stood firm in her convictions. Despite public outcry and even the burning of an effigy depicting Harriet, Elias, and an ally, Mrs. Northrop, Harrietโ€™s resolve did not waver. (Eliasโ€™ cousin, John Ridge also attended the Mission School, where he met Sarah Northrop, the daughter of the schoolโ€™s steward. The two became romantically involved and wed in January 1824.)


The Honeymoon at the Logan Homestead

After enduring months of familial and societal pressure, Harrietโ€™s immediate family softened their stance. In May 1826, Harriet and Elias married at the Gold Homestead and spent their wedding night at the Logan Homestead, which was fortified and protected by Captain Logan and his armed men. This act of defiance by Captain Logan ensured the coupleโ€™s safety during a time of heightened tension.

The couple left Connecticut the next day, embarking on a 47-day journey to the Cherokee Nation in Georgia.


A New Life and Tragic Loss

Settling in New Echota, Elias became the editor of the Cherokee Phoenix, the first tribal newspaper in the United States. It was printed in English and Cherokee, using the Cherokee syllabary created by Sequoyah. In her family letters, Harriet described a good life, and that she had been warmly welcomed upon her arrival. Harriet gave birth to six children, but tragedy struck during her seventh pregnancy. In May 1836, Harrietโ€™s child was stillborn, and she passed away three months later at the age of 31. She was buried in New Echota, and Elias erected a tombstone made from marble brought from Connecticutโ€”a testament to her enduring connection to her roots.

Elias Boudinot, formerly known as Killekeenah Oowaite

The Aftermath

The Cherokee Nationโ€™s land was increasingly encroached upon by settlers, culminating in the infamous Trail of Tears. Eliasโ€™ eventual support of the Treaty of New Echota, which advocated for Cherokee relocation, marked him and others as traitors in the eyes of many. In 1839, Elias was assassinated for his controversial stance.

Harriet and Eliasโ€™ children were sent back to Connecticut, where they were raised by Harrietโ€™s sister Mary Brinsmade. The boys, William, Frank, and Elias, attended The Gunn School in Washington, Connecticut, while the girls were cared for by their aunt.


Legacy of the Logan Homestead

The Logan Homestead, a witness to this extraordinary love story, remains a symbol of courage and resilience. Harriet and Eliasโ€™ union defied societal norms, blending two distinct cultures in an era resistant to change. Captain Loganโ€™s decision to protect the couple during their wedding night speaks to the power of individual acts of bravery in shaping history.

Harrietโ€™s grave stands as a poignant reminder of a woman who followed her heart, defied convention, and left an indelible mark on both her family and history.

Threatened by Georgia soldiers for championing Cherokee nationalism yet executed by his own people for treason, Elias Boudinot left a complex legacy.

1800 Photograph of the grave of Harriet Ruggles Gold Boudinot, New Echota, Gordon County, Georgia

Acknowledgments

Special thanks to Stephen Bartkus, previous Curator of the Gunn Historical Museum, and Sarah Griswold, previous Curatorial Assistant, for their invaluable contributions to the previous research by Mark Oliver*.


References

  1. *Oliver, Mark B. โ€œONE New Englandโ€ Elias Boudinot and Harriet Gold, www.onenewengland.com/article.php?id=356. Accessed Jan. 2025.
  2. Gunn Memorial Library and Museum Archives. (Special thanks to Amy Campanaro and Corinne Tabolt.)
  3. Correspondence of Harriet Gold and Elias Boudinot. To Marry an Indian: The Marriage of Harriett Gold and Elias Boudinot in Letters, 1823-1839. United States, University of North Carolina Press, 2006.
  4. Historical records from the Foreign Mission School, Cornwall, CT.
  5. Cherokee Phoenix archives. โ€œHistory of the Cherokee Phoenixโ€ Cherokeephoenix.Org, 13 Jan. 2015, www.cherokeephoenix.org/archives/history-of-the-cherokee-phoenix/article_30c25bf9-bc26-5628-9687-75e1be8581ba.html. Accessed Jan. 2025.
  6. Trail of Tears www.georgiaencyclopedia.org/articles/history-archaeology/elias-boudinot-ca-1804-1839/. Accessed Jan. 2025.
  7.  “[Photograph of the grave of Harriet Ruggles Gold Boudinot, New Echota, Gordon County, Georgia].” 1800/1994. January 25, 2025. https://dlg.galileo.usg.edu/vang/do:gor379.

Your Roots: Why Genealogy Isn’t Just for “Old People”

Have you ever heard someone dismiss family history research as a hobby for “old people”? While it’s true that some may associate genealogy with dusty archives and microfilm reels, this couldn’t be further from the truth. In fact, there’s a growing fascination with ancestry across all ages.

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But DNA is just one tool in the genealogist’s toolbox. Traditional methods, like collecting vital records such as birth certificates, marriage licenses, and obituaries, remain the cornerstone of genealogical research. These records can provide a wealth of information about our ancestors’ lives, from their places of birth and occupations to their migration patterns and relationships.

Sometimes, traditional research methods reach a dead end, especially when faced with immigration records, name changes, or missing documentation. That’s where genealogical societies come in. These local organizations are treasure troves of historical resources, often staffed by passionate volunteers eager to help you climb over your brick walls. And their fees are often surprisingly affordable!

If you’re curious about your ancestry but lack the time or resources to delve into research yourself, there are family history research specialists like myself available to help. Whether you need a comprehensive family tree compiled or simply guidance on where to begin your research journey, I can tailor a package to fit your needs.

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Thanks for reading, Marlee L. Logan

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From Clocks to Legacy: The Story of Johann Henrich Heilig and the Rittenhouse Connection

Johann Henrich Heilig, my 6th great-grandfather, was born in 1700 and married Susanna De Wees Rittenhausen in 1729. Susanna’s family was prominent in early American industry, particularly in the Rittenhouse paper mills, which Iโ€™ve written about previously. If youโ€™re a descendant or admirer of the Rittenhouse legacy, I recommend exploring the Rittenhouse Family Descendants and Friends Facebook page and learning about their efforts to preserve this rich history. The Rittenhouse Town Board of Directors actively maintains the historic Homestead House (built in 1707), the surrounding village, and a barn constructed during the WPA era.

Henrichโ€™s origins remain debated among historians. Earlier accounts suggest he was born in Hannover, Germany, while newer research points to Baden-Wuerttemberg. What we do know is that Johann arrived in Philadelphia in 1720 aboard the Polly. Since passenger lists werenโ€™t required until 1727, his exact journey is pieced together through indirect evidence.

By April 11, 1747, Johann was officially naturalized as a resident of Pennsylvania, meeting the colonial requirement of seven years’ residency. By this time, he was known as Henryโ€”a clockmaker by trade. Clockmaking was a respected profession during the 18th century, vital for navigation, surveying, and precise timekeeping.

Henry and Susanna initially settled in Cheltenham but later purchased land on the borders of Pennsburg and Upper Hanover Townships in Montgomery County in 1749 and 1750. This property, acquired from surveyor William Parsons (an associate of the Penn family), remained in the family for generations. Passing from Henrich to his son George, and later to George Jr., the land was eventually sold to the Hoch family in the 1860s. Remarkably, the Hoch family still owns the house todayโ€”a living testament to centuries of stewardship.

Before 1684, the Lenape Indians roamed the hills and fished the streams of the land on either side of the Perkiomen Creek. In 1684, the Indians lost this land whenย  William Penn purchased it for reportedly “two watch coats, four pairs of stockings and four bottles of cider.”ย  In time, Pennsylvania Germans settled in the area. Around 1840, the area now known as Pennsburg began to appear like a village.ย  The hub comprised a general store, a carpenter and blacksmith shop, and several houses.
Most of the land was owned by the Heilig Brothers.ย  They owned and resided in the oldest house in Pennsburg, located at Seminary and Fourth Streets. The Heilig Brothers took it upon themselves to refer to this village as “Heiligsville.”ย Residents had their ideas, and out of loyalty to the then Pennsylvania Senator,ย James Buchanan, wanted to name the area Buchanansville.

As the village grew, a meeting was held in 1843 at the Hilleg family store to decide on a permanent name and layout of boundary lines.ย  After a week-long, bitterly contested battle, it was finally decided to name the village “Pennsburg” after William Penn.

https://www.pennsburg.us/borough-history website


Henrich and Susannah had five children:

i. Heinrich Heilig, b. 1722, ii. Jurg George Heilig, b. 1720; d. 1796, Upper Hanover Township., iii. Johannes Heilig (Source: Willbook I – 1796, 149-150.).
iv. Anna Maria Heilig (Source: Willbook I – 1796, 149-150.), m. Michael Slonaker., v. Susanna Heilig (Source: Willbook I – 1796, 149-150.), b. 1726; m. Henry Deany.


Johannes or John changed the surname to Highley. The other children kept the German spelling of Heilig.

This notation appears on a locally sold postcard by Len Hillegass of the Heilig House: “The Heilig House at 313 W. 4th Street is considered the oldest house in Pennsburg. Wounded and ill Colonial Soldiers were cared for there by the very compassionate Heilig family during the Colonies’ fight for independence from British rule during the American Revolution.” Album by Reid Heilig
You can see other pictures of the house at https://imageevent.com/heilig/heiligheritage/heilighousepennsburgpa?n=1&z=2&c=4&x=0&m=24&w=0&p=0.

Henry was a clockmaker. He passed down the art of his clockmaking skills to his children and nephews. One of the most famous was David Rittenhouse, an avid astronomer; he built complicated astronomical clocks and orreries, or planetary models, that kept time and predicted celestial events.

David Rittenhouse tall case clock. 1984.0416.007.

Henry is listed in the U.S., Craftperson Files, 1600-1995.

With hand made brass works in the German style, it consists of 19 bells, a wooden cylinder with pins that activate 19 hammers to play tunes, a bone wave to switch tunes. Iron frame is dovetailed together. You can read more about each piece on Reid Helig’s site at https://imageevent.com/heilig/hheiligclock/themusicmechanism

Henry was buried along with his wife in the mostly Rittenhouse family cemetery, Methacton Mennonite Cemetery. Click here for a partial list of burials with links to tombstone photographs. Henrich’s and Susannah’s are below. This cemetery is located in Worcester Township, Montgomery County, PA.

A wonderfully thorough history is written by Linton E. Love, a descendant of the Rittenhouse family. In it are the descendants of Henry and Susannah. Linton has created a database extending from the 17th century up to the 21st century from Claus to his 12,810 descendants as of March 2005!

Johann Henrich Heiligโ€™s story is one of perseverance, skill, and enduring family ties. From his arrival in Philadelphia to the land that remains in familial care, his legacy is woven into the fabric of American history. Whether as a skilled clockmaker or as part of the Rittenhouse connection, his contributions remind us of the resilience and dedication of early immigrants. By reflecting on his life, we not only honor his journey but gain inspiration for preserving our own family stories for generations to come. Do you have a Heilig clock? You might!

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